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MEET RAFAEL
I'm Rafael Gomez. I teach men how to be worth dating, which is a different job from teaching men how to get dates.
WHY I DO THIS
There's an entire industry telling men that women are the problem. That you need to be taller, richer, colder, or more indifferent. That being kind is weakness and being honest is beta.
It's wrong, and worse than that, it's a trap. It gives a man an explanation for why nothing's working that costs him the thing he actually wants.
So I went and asked women. Not in a survey. In long, uncomfortable, specific conversations about what actually made them stay with someone and what made them leave. Then I started coaching men against the answers, and the ten standards are what came out.
WHO I AM
Fifteen years in performance marketing, most of it at director level, which is where I learned to be suspicious of a claim without a number behind it.
Author of The Attraction Handbook.
Based in Orange County, California.
Married. I asked my wife out at work by telling her I was interested and that if she wasn't, I'd keep it professional. That's standard six.
WHO I'M NOT
I'm not a therapist, a guru, or a man who got lucky and reverse-engineered a method out of it. I'm not selling you a secret, because the whole method is free on this site and you can read it without giving me your email address.
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