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The Scientific Case Against the Red Pill
Every week I get the same comment. "You're just one of those guys who hates men." Or "Where's your evidence?" So here it is. I spent the last few months pulling every peer-reviewed study I could find on the manosphere, the red pill, and incel communities. Not opinion pieces. Not journalism. Actual research published in actual journals. The headline: the men who consume the most manosphere content are doing worse, not better. The Scientific Case Against the Red Pill / Manosphe

Rafael Gomez
Apr 3013 min read


The Best Books for Men: Confidence, Dating and Getting Your Head Right
Most reading lists for men are either grindset books about waking up at 4am or theory about what women supposedly want. Neither one helps you. This list is organized differently. It is sorted by the problem, not by the genre. Figure out which part is actually stuck, then read the two or three books for that part. Seventeen books is not an assignment. It is a menu. Note: Some of the links below are affiliate links. If you buy through them, I earn a small commission at no extra

Rafael Gomez
Feb 234 min read
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